Thursday, July 16, 2009

Attention Parents "It's Our Job"

Joshua 4:19-24 The people came up out of the Jordan on the tenth day of the first month, and they encamped at Gilgal on the east border of Jericho. 20And those twelve stones, which they took out of the Jordan, Joshua set up at Gilgal. 21And he said to the people of Israel, "When your children ask their fathers in times to come, 'What do these stones mean?' 22then you shall let your children know, 'Israel passed over this Jordan on dry ground.' 23For the LORD your God dried up the waters of the Jordan for you until you passed over, as the LORD your God did to the Red Sea, which he dried up for us until we passed over, 24so that all the peoples of the earth may know that the hand of the LORD is mighty, that you may fear the LORD your God forever.

We are living in a time when statistics tell us that 75% of teens will graduate from their faith when they graduate from high school. They also tell us that less than 4% will believe the Bible to be absolute truth, without error, that Jesus died and rose again and that there is a literal Hell. Why? I believe because of what this passage addresses specifically in verse 21, "When your children ask their fathers in times to come, 'What do these stones mean?' then you shall let your children know." What is happening today is what happened to the Israelites time and time again is that they forgot what God had done and turned away from Him because families, "fathers" in particular did not answer the question and many like it, "what do these stones mean?" Instead they loaded them up on a donkey and took them to the temple once a week for a couple of hours and expected the rabbi to tell them or they took them to see the Dead Sea Floaters play against the Jericho Walls in a game of dessert baseball. Today families have forsaken their responsibility, privilege, and call to first and foremost help their children to grow spiritually to answer questions like, "what do these stones mean?" and instead have replaced it with sports, academics, entertainment and have settled for dropping off kids at youth group in hopes that a youth pastor will be able to do spiritually help kids mature in an average of 1 to 2 hours a week. Please understand I am not saying that sports, academics, entertainment are bad but like the idols of Israel that distracted them from God, these things have become idols that have replaced the desire to know God and follow Him. I am absolutely convinced that if we are going to see a turn around in the numbers of teens leaving their faith when they leave the home we have got to put God first and begin pursuing Him as families and fathers need to step up and lead their families in answering the question, "what do these stones mean?" As a father it is my responsibility to teach my kids about God and to create an environment for them to learn about just how awesome God is and what He can and will do in their lives instead of delegating that responsibility to the church. The church should just be a supplement to an on going diet of God that begins at home. I pray that parents will step up and fathers in particular to see this generation become a generation like Joshua's that made a huge difference for God in the world.

Father help me to lead my kids spiritually as I seek to follow you. Give me the strength to remove idols that have taken the place of you and give me wisdom to effectively create an environment where my kids seek after you.

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